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bejohnson
12-07-2003, 10:22 AM
Women take control over their sex lives
Aftenposten's Norwegian reporters
Anne Hafstad
Lene Skogstroem

Aftenposten English Web Desk
Nina Berglund


Norwegian women apparently know what they want. A unique, new study has turned a cold shower on old myths, and shows that men definitely aren't the boss in bed anymore.

The study, conducted by researchers at the University of Oslo, followed 2,700 Norwegian women and men aged 20-26 over a seven-year period. It concludes that men's and women's traditional roles have changed drastically during the past decade.

"The differences between young women's and young men's sex lives have increased," sociology professor Willy Pedersen told newspaper Aftenposten.

Among the study's findings:

Young women in Norway make their sexual debut at an earlier age than men.

Young women tend to enjoy sex more than young men.

Young Norwegian women have had more sex partners than young Norwegian men.

Women have become more aggressive in bed than their male partners.

More than 30 percent of the young men questioned said they had sex less than once a month, compared to less than 20 percent for young women. Nearly 60 percent of the women questioned, meanwhile, said they had sex up to three times a week, compared to just over 40 percent of the men.

The study reveals that young women more often take the initiative for sex, while at the same time maintaining their femininity.


Men on the sidelines

Young men formerly viewed as hormone-driven sex maniacs in reality have found themselves on the sidelines, according to the study.

"What's worrisome is that young men are now more likely to sit alone in their rooms and masturbate while young women go out in the world and live out their newly liberated sexual lives," said Pedersen, who was responsible for the study.

It also found that men now are the ones who crave more intimacy, kissing and hugging, long considered to be what women wanted most.

Results of the study were to be presented in the magazine Acta Sociologica this week.

Ok men, let's here from you on this. You ladies too.

thephenom
12-07-2003, 11:48 AM
errrr.....do STDs come into mind when you read something like this?

I guess it really contributes to factor that girls don't know what they want until later on in life (ie finding their type of men).

It's so casual for people now to get hooked up, have sex, and break up. The cycle repeats itself pretty darn quick too.

But here's a thing I find with the study. They didn't really take into account that some of these girls might be having sex with older men that is not in the age group. With that said, it still could be these men that kinda "force" sex upon the girls.

My final idea though..... Condoms are too expensive for young men to buy.:devil :lmao

wazman
12-07-2003, 12:24 PM
Women have been controlling my sex life since I hit puberty, so I don't find this all that surprising.

bejohnson
12-07-2003, 12:34 PM
Originally posted by wazman
Women have been controlling my sex life since I hit puberty, so I don't find this all that surprising.

I agree. Someone has just printed the truth that we all knew.

bejohnson
12-07-2003, 01:13 PM
Originally posted by Whisp[TR]
lol

woman have never controlled my sex life

its 2 sided and men could do the same to a woman when it comes to sex

:KICK ASS

Oh I don't know about that. Without a woman a man's sex life is fairly well limited to three other options, none of which is appealing in the least.:rofl2

thephenom
12-07-2003, 01:40 PM
Originally posted by bejohnson
Oh I don't know about that. Without a woman a man's sex life is fairly well limited to three other options, none of which is appealing in the least.:rofl2
One of them only involves a forearm, sex requires a full body workout......

hmmmm.....:devil :Blah

thephenom
12-07-2003, 01:56 PM
Originally posted by Whisp[TR]
lol
:Wink

bejohnson
12-07-2003, 04:33 PM
Originally posted by thephenom
One of them only involves a forearm, sex requires a full body workout......

hmmmm.....:devil :Blah

One requires a forearm or hand, one requires a person of the same gender and the other involves farm animals.:Holy Crap :rofl2 None of which appeals to me.:thumb

thephenom
12-07-2003, 04:46 PM
Originally posted by bejohnson
One requires a forearm or hand, one requires a person of the same gender and the other involves farm animals.:Holy Crap :rofl2 None of which appeals to me.:thumb
Cuz you got Brandi.:Blah

bejohnson
12-07-2003, 04:49 PM
Originally posted by thephenom
Cuz you got Brandi.:Blah

Yeah, and she's half Norwegian too. Thank God I'm a :devil.

Artcwolf
12-07-2003, 04:49 PM
Originally posted by bejohnson
Ok men, let's here from you on this. You ladies too.

The study was done in Norway so the question is, what would be the results of a study in the United States?

Originally posted by thephenom
errrr.....do STDs come into mind when you read something like this?

Umm...yeah. Considering women are at a much higher risk at contracting STD's than men. It's a plumbing thing.

bejohnson
12-07-2003, 04:52 PM
Originally posted by Artcwolf
The study was done in Norway so the question is, what would be the results of a study in the United States?

Are you willing to devote the time to the research and publish your findings?:eek:

thephenom
12-07-2003, 04:53 PM
Originally posted by Artcwolf
Umm...yeah. Considering women are at a much higher risk at contracting STD's than men. It's a plumbing thing.
:lmao :rofl2
Ahhh...that gave me a good laugh.....

now back to studying.:Nope

thephenom
12-07-2003, 04:54 PM
Originally posted by bejohnson
Are you willing to devote the time to the research and publish your findings?:eek:
Would this be a research based study? or experimental type???

Can I be part of it if it's experimental given I'm provide with proper protection (latex)

Artcwolf
12-07-2003, 05:25 PM
Originally posted by bejohnson
Are you willing to devote the time to the research and publish your findings?:eek:

Negative, Ghost Rider.

But, on the same token, I'm not going to place much weight on a study done in another country that might not be valid in the country I'm in.