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And|
05-19-2004, 08:30 AM
I held a party this weekend (Friday the 14th) and invited a long lost freind, that has had some mental issues, like my self.

Anyway, I invited some others, I think we where 8 guys sittin' and getting pissed. Then one of my neighboors come by with her friend, and my freind totaly falls for her, even though she tells him loud and clear that she isnt interested in ANYTHING.

He doesnt understand that aparently.

The day after that, saturday. I got a call from him "Can I get her number?" uhm... no you may not. I've been told that she thinks hes wierd, and that she cant see the problem from her side. In other words; its his problem. I cant agree more. Not her fault he falls for her.

Now my friend is pissed, because I have been stalling time, to protect his VERY fragile feelings, and her from getting in and akward position. Now he started with calling me a liar, because another freind of mine has another view on things. He believes I HAVE her phone number, wich I really dont. And that I have lied. No, I have been avoiding the truth to protect the well-beeing of one of my freinds.

Now he feels that I have failed him, and he would do the same thing for me (Get her phonenumber from my neighboor, to this girl).

Am I wrong?

Baker_God
05-19-2004, 09:19 AM
just tell the kid to face facts. If this girl doesn't want to get with him then tough luck, don't give him the # so he can harras her.

getit29
05-19-2004, 01:40 PM
And|, just be truthful with your friend and tell him how it is that
the girl just isn't interested in him. Yes he may be hurt by it but
that is better than letting him make an ass out of himself later
on and being hurt even worse by the girl's rejection(s). You are
in a tuff spot my friend; either you hurt his feelings slightly or you
let the girl hurt his feelings a lot more than you ever could. Well
good luck in what ever you decided to do about it. :Sigh

Orangepeel
05-19-2004, 04:46 PM
That's nice. Someone that would call you his friend is also as quick to call you a liar :(.

Stand to your word, don't give him her number!

He may be calling you a liar because he wants to play into sympathy. That is to say, he may want to get you to give in and get the number for him.

If a girl is not interested, she's not interested. Tell him to get with the program.

Stick to your word and don't give in. The girl he's trying to harass will be better off because your good judgement :thumb!!!

Ringthane
05-19-2004, 04:50 PM
Give him some other woman's number - like your grandmother or something. Let her set him straight.

coldstatic
05-19-2004, 05:16 PM
just tell him in sublte ways then if that dosent work get the 2x4. jk i think u guys should chiil play a couple of games and then just kinda drop it on him. like "hey dude that chick isnt realy into you she has a thing for some other guy.

Tivon
05-19-2004, 05:43 PM
1-800-GET-LOST!:lmao

dom_6(sic)6
05-20-2004, 02:43 PM
Kind of lie, by saying he was acting like an ass when he was drunk, so she didn't like him. Could be a bit harsh if you just saying "no, she don't like you" but try and stop him from asking, without getting hurt.