Women are confusing!!!

[ckang008]

Damn. I'm confused with women. I'm single and one of my lady friends (like a very good friend) from my dorm ask me if she can stay overnight on Saturday night at my room and I agreed to it. We watched White Chicks the movie and had a great time, then went to bed together. I kissed her good night on the lips and she had a little girl whining impression after the kiss which makes me think if she liked it or not. She fell asleep while i hugged her and I start thinking if she wants a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship.

The next morning (Sunday) we went to study at a library together and her actions and responses to me on the way there felt like the good friend type and not the girlfriend type which again, made me think if the previous night meant anything. We finished studying after 2 hours and when our seperate ways.

Usually, she's online on MSN around 9:00 PM everynight and we will talk for at least an hour but she was not on tonight or yesterday night.

That makes me wonder if she disliked me after the kiss which I think now that she didn't want or excepted it. Good thing I'm not superbly crazy for this girl or I'll feel pretty bad.

Do you think this is just a very very good friend relationship that she wants it to go so far as to sleep together on one damn single bed or she wants a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?

Women are just confusing creatures.




Note: I'm not sure if the kiss seriously ruined it but if i don't kiss her, then she might think I don't have any balls doing it

And I want to ask her if she wants to go out with me in the next day or two but if she rejects, then we are going to be in an awkward situation since she's a pretty close friend of mine and we can't have those type of times anymore

[CyberGuy]

Communication is an extremely important part of any relationship. The both of you are going to have to talk about this. Sure it's an awkward subject to bring up, but being close friends can make this a little easier.

Instead of asking her out, sit down with her talk to her and find out how she feels about you, and be sure to let her know how you feel about her. That last part can help her understand you.

Believe me, she would not feel less for you by simply asking how she feels -- she might even appreciate you more for it since a lot of women feel that men disregard or ignore their feelings by not bothering to ask.

This is of course only my $0.02 worth.